Planning for our future

I had a long talk with my wife yesterday.. And one of the topic that was brought up by my wife is planning for the future.. Have I ever did any kind of planning in my life?!

Truth be told... I haven't...

It's an irony, because I hate the idea of a person's life being planned out and them not having the ability to pursue what they want... But on the other hand.. That's kinda like the life I've been leading for the past 28 years. 

While my parents don't exactly plan for me in what shall I do, what school should I go and what job should I apply for, I never really planned what I wanted to achieve in life. Perhaps, arguably, marriage was the only thing I've planned for (I had to at least plan for a surprise proposal). 

I'm so lost..

The only thing I can think about is to save money.. But that's also like something I've said many many times .. And until now.. It's still zero.. 

And... That's not really a PLAN!

I know that I'm largely talking to myself.. But if some lonely soul out there is reading this.. Perhaps you could share. With me how you plan for you and your family's future? Just leave me a comment below. 

Sigh~ I need to grow up.. Need to mature... Need to stop being so lazy!